WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW BEFORE GOING INTO COURTSHIP

WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW BEFORE GOING INTO COURTSHIP

Why is courtship necessary before marriage?

What is courtship itself?

This is what a young man and a young lady who are attracted to each other do, in other not to enter into premarital sex, or though opposite is the case nowadays where young men and ladies use it as an avenue to engage themselves in having premarital sex. Which was never the purpose of the establishment of courtship. Courtship itself was established for the both parties involved in a relationship to know his or her partner very well, so that eventually when the two parties involved in these relationship later got married to each other, their marriage will perfectly work. The word courtship has a word derived from it, which is called court. Which is defined as a place where true justice is dished out for anyone who comes seeking. 

The following are things you need to know before courtship.

1.       Courtship don’t have to do with playing, doubt, or uncertainty. At this point, you are just being close to getting married. Just go into courtship when you are ready to marry.

2.       Courtship must not have to develop. Into marriage because during the period of the courtship a party may notice that they are not made for each other and decide they should simply remain friends instead.

3.       Courtship would never take place many times in your life, because life has different stages once the time is right for you conclude your courtship and get married and if that don’t happen it may be the end of such stage of life.

4.       Dating is a short term place or a period of time and should be a safe place for getting to know someone. Courting is a man’s courting a woman.

5.       Courtship is not for the fearful and someone who don’t know how to approach an opposite sex.

6.       Courtship should be free from sex. Sex should accompany marriage as a reward for those married.

7.       Courtship is the life wire that bond the partners involved.

8.       Courtship is usually done with the aim of one getting his future partner.

9.       The foundation of your courtship should be lied on love,

10.   The man and woman in a courtship should have respect for each other.

11.   Go into courtship with someone you are certainly sure you will marry at last.

12.   Respect the feeling of one another.

13.   Make sure both of you are of the same faith.

14.   During the period of your courtship make sure that your other partner will be able to overcome difficult challenges you’ve encountered together.